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aspects of your life?
Each person has characteristic ways of managing their emotional reactions
to their unique life challenges. The focus of my counseling work is on
identifying, strengthening, and, when necessary, modifying these coping
tools to optimize your satisfaction in work and relationships. One of the most
important parts of our collaborative work will be to create a safe space for
the exploration of feelings and behaviors. My style as a therapist is
interactive, supportive and nurturing, while also being honest and direct.
I conceptualize human development from a psychodynamic,
self-psychological perspective, (that is, understanding how one's perceptions
of childhood events and feelings affect current functioning), yet my counseling
approach is eclectic and flexible, informed by your needs and our mutually
agreed upon goals for treatment. I have a strong background in Cognitive
Behavioral Therapy, and teach a variety of techniques to manage feelings
and stressors (for example, relaxation and guided imagery training,
assertiveness training, mindfulness, systematic desensitization and stress
inoculation training).
I specialize in treating anxiety disorders, eating disorders (bulimia and
compulsive overeating), stress-management, bereavement and grief, and
relationship issues. Women's health and developmental issues are also a
special interest of mine, including coping with infertility, post-partum
depression, and menopause.
I worked as the Coordinator of the DePaul University Counseling Program
for many years where I conducted therapy with college and graduate
students, faculty, and staff, and conducted workshops and training on test
anxiety, stress-management and relaxation, transition and loss, eating
disorders, and self-esteem. My doctoral research concerned self-awareness
and emotion regulation in women with eating disorders, and I have had
specialized training and experience in the treatment of bulimia, body
dissatisfaction, and compulsive overeating. My Internship specialty at Rush
University Medical Center was in health psychology and focused on weight
management, headache and pain management, sleep disorders, and
adjusting to medical illnesses such as Multiple Sclerosis and cancer. I have
completed Level 1 therapist training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy
and use Gottman Method Couples Therapy in my counseling work with
couples.
Qualifications
Education:
Undergraduate: University of Illinois
(Phi Beta Kappa)
Graduate: Depaul University
Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology granted
in 1987
Residency Training:
Rush University Medical Center
Years in Practice: 20+
Professional Affiliations:
Member, American Psychological
Association
Member, Illinois Psychological
Association
Member, National Eating Disorders
Association
Treatment Focus
Ages Treated: 16+
Modalities:
Individual Psychotherapy
Couples Psychotherapy
Treatment Approaches Used:
Psychodynamic
Cognitive Behavioral
Interpersonal
Specialties:
Anxiety/Fears
Relationship Issues
Eating Disorders
Depression
Health/Medical Issues
Infertility/Adoption
Loss or Grief
Stress Management
Parenting
Locations:
Chicago and Northbrook (serving
Glencoe, Highland Park, Wilmette,
Glenview, Deerfield, Wheeling,
Arlington Heights).
Effective Therapy for Individuals & Couples
Robert Aber, Ph.D. & Betty Burrows, Ph.D.